Choosing the type of funeral

Sometimes, choosing the type of funeral can seem obvious, and other times less so

The wishes of the person who died are very important and it is natural that you will want to honour these if they have been expressed.

Things to consider include:

When deciding what type of funeral is right for you and the person who has died, you may wish to consider:

  • Any wishes or preferences the person shared before they died
  • The cost of the funeral, and how it will be paid for
  • Any religious, spiritual or personal beliefs that are important to you or the person who died
  • Any environmental considerations that are important to you or the person who has died
  • The location of the funeral and how easy it will be for family and friends to attend
  • What feels like a meaningful way to remember the person who has died
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Honoring the wishes of the person who has died

The wishes of the person who died are very important, and many people want to honour them wherever possible.

However, there can be a big difference in cost between different funeral choices. In 2025, burial cost over £1,200 more than cremation on average across the UK. In some areas, including parts of London, the difference can be much greater.

If you are worried about how you will pay for the funeral, it may be worth considering whether there are other ways to reflect the person’s wishes without placing yourself under financial pressure. Many people would not want their funeral to leave those close to them with debt or ongoing money worries.

If you are considering repatriating the person who died to another country, it is important to understand the likely costs. These can vary depending on the destination and the arrangements needed both in the UK and in the receiving country.

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