Help with funeral costs
More information about help available with funeral costs can be found in our Raising money towards funeral costs guide.
How do I raise money for a funeral?
How do I raise money for a funeral?
There are many ways that people choose to raise money for a funeral. If there isn’t enough, or any money in the person’s estate, the person arranging the funeral may be eligible for government funeral payments, charitable grants, or may consider crowdfunding.
Can I get help with funeral costs if I work?
Can I get help with funeral costs if I work?
If you are receiving a means-tested benefit, you may be eligible for government support. If you’re not eligible, or if you need more assistance, you may be eligible to apply to a grant-giving charity for financial support.
There are many benevolent funds connected to different areas of work. You can use the Turn2Us grants-search to help, Lightning Reach, or search on the internet.
If your spouse or cohabiting partner has died, and you are under state pension age, you may be eligible for the Bereavement Support Payment, which isn’t means-tested.
Can I get help with funeral costs if I'm not on benefits?
Can I get help with funeral costs if I'm not on benefits?
Whilst government support isn’t available if you are not receiving a qualifying means-tested benefit, you may be eligible to apply to grant-giving charities for assistance. Charities will often require that an applicant is receiving all benefits that they are entitled to, as they are not a substitute for statutory services.
If your spouse or cohabiting partner has died, and you are under state pension age, you may be eligible for the Bereavement Support Payment, which isn’t means-tested.
Can pensioners get help with funeral costs?
Can pensioners get help with funeral costs?
Pensioners can get help from the government with funeral costs if they are receiving a qualifying benefit such as Pension Credit or Housing Benefit. They may also be eligible to apply to charities for grants towards funeral costs, including some charities specifically for older people.
Responsibility for funeral arrangements and their costs
Who is responsible for funeral costs?
Who is responsible for funeral costs?
Often, the closest relative to the person who has died will make the funeral arrangements for them, however this is not always possible. Other family members or close friends may choose to make the arrangements. In circumstances where there is no-one willing or able to make funeral arrangements for someone who has died, the local authority where the death happened has a legal duty. This is known as a Council Funeral or Public Health Funeral.
Is the next of kin responsible for funeral costs?
Is the next of kin responsible for funeral costs?
Although it is often the closest relative of the person who has died who makes the funeral arrangements, sometimes this isn’t practical or possible. In these situations, often other family members or close friends will assist, and if there is no-one at all, the local authority where the person died has a legal duty to make the arrangements. This is known as a Council Funeral or Public Health Funeral.
What happens if I can't pay for a funeral?
What happens if I can't pay for a funeral?
If you’re not able to pay for a funeral, there are different ways that you can consider raising money towards the funeral costs, for example the estate of the person who has died, government support and grant-giving charities.
In circumstances where there is no-one who can make funeral arrangements for someone who has died, the local authority where the person died has a legal responsibility to make the arrangements. These arrangements differ between local authorities and, while most will allow people to attend, sometimes they are restricted to a direct, unattended cremation. These are known as Council Funerals or Public Health Funerals.
The estate
More detailed information about accessing money from the estate of someone who has died can be found in our guides.
What is the ‘Estate’?
What is the ‘Estate’?
The ‘Estate’ is everything owned by a person who has died. This could be made up of money held in cash or accounts, money owed to a person who has died, any shares and investments, property and personal belongings of value (for example their car or jewellery).
What is probate?
What is probate?
Probate is the legal process of dealing with someone’s estate after they have died. It is not always needed, and you can check with any financial institutions (for example banks or mortgage companies) to find out whether probate will be needed to access their assets. Each organisation has its own rules and policies.
You can find more information about probate, and how to apply for it, on the gov.uk website.
Do funeral costs come out of the estate?
Do funeral costs come out of the estate?
Yes, funeral expenses can be paid from the deceased person’s estate and are often the highest priority except for some secured debts such as mortgages. The executor or administrator of the estate (who is responsible for managing the deceased person’s affairs) can use the deceased person’s assets, such as bank accounts or property, to cover funeral costs.
Funds from someone’s property, for example, may require a grant of probate before they can be released.
Can I use the deceased person's bank account to pay for their funeral?
Can I use the deceased person's bank account to pay for their funeral?
Any money left by the person who died must be used to pay towards the cost of their funeral, before any rent, utilities etc. are paid. The only exception to this is where they left any secured loans (such as a mortgage), in which case these must be paid first. If, after this, there is insufficient money or assets in the estate to pay off any debts, then they would be paid in priority order until the money or assets run out. Any remaining debts should be written off.
To release money from a bank account, you can take a copy of the death certificate and a copy of the funeral bill to the bank. Many banks will release the money directly to the funeral director (if you are using one). There is no need to wait for probate.
I only have an interim death certificate, will the bank accept this?
I only have an interim death certificate, will the bank accept this?
Many banks will accept interim death certificates, coroner’s certificates, and non-UK death certificates that have been translated into English to release money for funeral expenses. Check with the bank whether they can accept an interim certificate and what other documents, such as proof of identification, they need.
How can I pay for a funeral before probate?
How can I pay for a funeral before probate?
If there is money in the deceased person’s accounts, you can usually get the bank to release the money directly to the funeral director. Take the death certificate and funeral invoice to a branch of the bank and they can pay the funeral director directly. If you cannot attend a branch, most banks are now able to do this online. There is no need to wait for probate.
Does life insurance pay for a funeral?
Does life insurance pay for a funeral?
Yes, life insurance payouts can be used to help cover funeral costs. A lump sum paid out upon death can be used by beneficiaries to pay for funeral expenses although it doesn’t have to be used in this way.
Social Fund Funeral Expenses Payment
Full information about government support available following a bereavement can be found in our guides. This includes the Social Fund Funeral Expenses Payment (for England, Wales and Northern Ireland), the Funeral Support Payment (for Scotland) and the Bereavement Support Payment.
What is the Funeral Expenses Payment?
What is the Funeral Expenses Payment?
A government grant from the DWP toward the cost of a funeral, intended for people on qualifying benefits. The person making the claim doesn’t need to pay this back but if the deceased person left sufficient assets (e.g. money or property) in their estate, the DWP are entitled to recover the payment from there and will usually attempt to do so.
You can apply for a Funeral Expenses Payment even if you do not use a funeral director. The full amount is unlikely to cover even the cost of a simple funeral, so you are likely to have a shortfall.
Who is entitled to it?
Who is entitled to it?
The DWP look at several things when deciding whether to issue a funeral payment including:
- The applicant’s benefits and the benefits of some of the deceased person’s family
- The type and amount of contact they had with the deceased person
If you are arranging an adult funeral, you can check whether you are eligible to claim the Funeral Expenses Payment using our eligibility checker.
The applicant will usually need to be named on the funeral bill. If they are not, an explanation will need to be given.
The person who has died must have lived in the UK and their funeral be taking place in the UK, European Economic Area, or Switzerland. You, or your partner, must be responsible for the funeral costs, and you must apply for it within 6 months of the date of the funeral.
The benefits considered for eligibility are Universal Credit, Income Support, Income-based Jobseeker’s Allowance, Income-related Employment and Support Allowance, Pension Credit and Housing Benefit. You might also be eligible if you’re getting a Support for Mortgage Interest loan.
How do I claim it?
How do I claim it?
In England and Wales, you can apply by phoning the DWP Bereavement Service Helpline on 0800 151 2012. You can also fill in a paper SF200 form and post it. For textphone, video relay service for British Sign Language users or Welsh language options, visit the DWP website.
In Northern Ireland you can contact the Bereavement Service on 0800 085 2463. You can also fill in a paper SF200 form and post it. For textphone, or video relay service for British Sign Language users, visit the NI Direct website.
How much will I get?
How much will I get?
The main costs the Funeral Expenses Payment contributes towards are as follows:
- ‘Reasonable’ burial or cremation fees.
- Up to £1,000 toward other funeral expenses (generally those covered under funeral director’s fees or, if you are making your own arrangements, costs such as the coffin). If the person who has died had a pre-paid funeral plan, this amount is capped at £120.
- Death certificates to release money belonging to the person who died.
- One return journey to arrange or attend the funeral (not including the cost of a funeral car or limousine to transport mourners)
- In some circumstances, transport costs if you need to move the person who died over 50 miles (80 kilometres).
The amount will be reduced by any money in the deceased person’s estate that is available without probate or letters of administration (except money held as a ‘joint tenancy’ – a joint account where both people pay in and neither has restrictions on withdrawing). However, arrears of benefits paid in on the date of death or afterwards should not be deducted.
Do I have to pay it back?
Do I have to pay it back?
The person making the claim doesn’t need to pay this back, but if the person who has died left sufficient assets (e.g. money or property) in their estate the DWP are entitled to recover the payment from there and will usually attempt to do so.
What if I don't agree with the decision?
What if I don't agree with the decision?
You can ask the DWP to look at their decision again. This is called a mandatory reconsideration, and you should ask for this within 30 days of the decision. If you miss this deadline, you can still ask for a mandatory reconsideration, but you’ll have to explain why you missed it.
If you still don’t agree with the decision after it has been looked at again you can ask an independent tribunal to consider an appeal. This should be requested within 30 days of a decision from the mandatory reconsideration.
If the funeral is for an adult, you may want to check eligibility using our digital Funeral Expenses Payment eligibility checker.
How long will it take to get payment?
How long will it take to get payment?
The DWP aim to process Funeral Expenses Payments within 13 working days, though in practice it can take longer.
Funeral Support Payment (Scotland)
Full information about government support available following a bereavement can be found in our guides. This includes the Social Fund Funeral Expenses Payment (for England, Wales and Northern Ireland), the Funeral Support Payment (for Scotland) and the Bereavement Support Payment.
What is the Funeral Support Payment?
What is the Funeral Support Payment?
A government grant from Social Security Scotland toward the cost of a funeral for people on qualifying benefits. The person making the claim doesn’t need to pay this back but if the deceased person left sufficient assets in their estate, Social Security Scotland are entitled to recover the payment from there and will usually attempt to do so.
You can apply for a Funeral Support Payment even if you do not use a funeral director. The full amount is unlikely to cover even the cost of a simple funeral, so you are likely to have a shortfall.
Who is entitled to it?
Who is entitled to it?
You can apply for the Funeral Support Payment if you live in Scotland and you, or your partner, are receiving a qualifying benefit. In assessing your application, Social Security Scotland will ask why you have taken responsibility for the cost of the funeral.
The person who has died must have lived in the UK and their funeral be taking place in the UK, European Economic Area, or Switzerland. You, or your partner, must be responsible for the funeral costs, and you must apply for it within 6 months of the date of the funeral.
The benefits considered for eligibility are Universal Credit, Income Support, Income-based Jobseeker’s Allowance, Income-related Employment and Support Allowance, Pension Credit and Housing Benefit. You might also be eligible if you’re getting a Support for Mortgage Interest loan.
How do I claim it?
How do I claim it?
You can phone Social Security Scotland on 0800 182 2222. You can also apply online, or fill in a paper form and post it. For textphone, or video relay service for users of British Sign Language, visit Social Security Scotland’s website.
How much will I get?
How much will I get?
The main costs the Funeral Support Payment contributes towards are as follows:
- Burial, Cremation or Alkaline Hydrolysis costs
- £1,279.15 towards other funeral expenses (generally those covered under funeral director’s fees or, if you are making your own arrangements, costs such as the coffin). If the person who has died had a pre-paid funeral plan, this amount is capped at £156.10.
- Death certificates to release money belonging to the person who died
- One return journey to arrange or attend the funeral (not including the cost of a funeral car or limousine to transport mourners)
- In some circumstances, transport costs if you need to move the person who has died over 49.7 miles (80 kilometres)
The amount will be reduced by any money in the deceased person’s estate that is available without probate or letters of administration (except money held as a ‘joint tenancy’ – a joint account where both people pay in and neither has restrictions on withdrawing). However, arrears of benefits paid in on the date of death or afterwards should not be deducted.
Do I have to pay it back?
Do I have to pay it back?
The person making the claim doesn’t need to pay this back, but if a person had sufficient assets in their estate Social Security Scotland are entitled to recover the payment from there and will usually attempt to do so.
What if I don't agree with the decision?
What if I don't agree with the decision?
You can ask for your application to be looked at again. This is called a re-determination, and you should request this within 31 days of the decision. If you miss this deadline, you can still ask for a re-determination, but you’ll have to explain why you missed it. If you still don’t agree with the decision after it has been looked at again, you can appeal to the First-tier Tribunal (Social Security Chamber) within 31 days of the re-determination.
How long will it take to get the payment?
How long will it take to get the payment?
Once Social Security Scotland have received all the documents they have asked for, they aim to contact you within 10 working days, although in practice, this can take longer.
Bereavement support payment
Full information about government support available following a bereavement can be found in our guides. This includes the Social Fund Funeral Expenses Payment (for England, Wales and Northern Ireland), the Funeral Support Payment (for Scotland) and the Bereavement Support Payment.
Am I entitled to a Bereavement Support Payment?
Am I entitled to a Bereavement Support Payment?
You may be able to get a Bereavement Support Payment if you are under state pension age when your partner dies, if they have paid at least 25 weeks of National Insurance contributions in any one tax year since 6 April 1975, or if they have died because of an accident at work or a disease caused by work. In Northern Ireland, the rule about National Insurance contributions is relaxed if the person who has died was unable to work throughout their working life due to disability.
If you don’t have dependent children, you would need to have been married to, or in a civil partnership with, the person who has died.
If you were getting Child Benefit or were entitled to it for a child/children, or were pregnant, you can also get a payment if you were living together as if you were married.
You usually need to make a claim within 3 months of your partner’s death to get the full amount of payments.
How much will I get from the Bereavement Support Payment?
How much will I get from the Bereavement Support Payment?
If you were getting Child Benefit, were entitled to it for a child/children, or were pregnant when your spouse or cohabiting partner died you will receive a one-off payment of £3,500 followed by up to 18 monthly payments of £350.
If you were not getting Child Benefit, and were not eligible to claim it, and were not pregnant when your spouse died you will receive a one-off payment of £2,500 followed by up to 18 monthly payments of £100.
You must claim within 3 months of your partner’s death to get the full payments. If you claim more than 3 months after your partner’s death you will receive less. If it has been more than 21 months since your partner’s death, you usually cannot get any payments.
If you reach State Pension age within 18 months of your partner’s death, you may get fewer monthly payments.
How do I claim Bereavement Support Payment?
How do I claim Bereavement Support Payment?
You can phone the Department for Work and Pensions on 0800 151 2012. You can also apply online or fill in a paper form and post it. For textphone, or video relay service for users of British Sign Language, visit the DWP’s website.
Charities
Full information about finding and applying to charities for help with funeral costs can be found in our Raising money towards funeral costs guide.
Will charities help with funeral costs?
Will charities help with funeral costs?
Some charities may be able to give grants to help towards the cost of a funeral.
What charities help with funeral costs?
What charities help with funeral costs?
There are a variety of different charities that may help. Some are related to the work or profession of the person applying or the person who has died, and others can provide financial support depending on characteristics such as your age, location, gender or nationality.
How can I find charities I might be able to apply to?
How can I find charities I might be able to apply to?
You can do an internet search using key words about professions and use online grants search tools such as Turn2us or Lightning Reach to see what may be available to you.
How much will charities give?
How much will charities give?
They all give different levels of grants. Some smaller charities will only be able to contribute a much smaller amount whilst larger ones may be able to contribute more. Things like length of time spent in an occupation and financial circumstances are often considered when deciding how much can be awarded. It’s possible to apply to several charities at the same time if you are eligible, as they may be able to share funeral costs, but you must let them know what you are doing.
I have paid the bill; will charities reimburse me?
I have paid the bill; will charities reimburse me?
Most charities can’t reimburse money already paid on a funeral bill so do consider this carefully if you are thinking of borrowing money to pay the bill. If you do need to do this, it’s a good idea to check in advance whether they would consider reimbursing you.
Who is responsible for funeral costs?
Who is responsible for funeral costs?
Often, the closest relative to the person who has died will make the funeral arrangements for them, however this is not always possible. Other family members or close friends may choose to make the arrangements. In circumstances where there is no-one willing or able to make funeral arrangements for someone who has died, the local authority where the death happened has a legal duty.
How do I set up a crowdfunding page?
How do I set up a crowdfunding page?
To set up a crowdfunding page, first choose one of the fundraising platforms online. Some popular examples are Crowdfunder, GoFundMe, GoGetFunding and JustGiving. Then create an account, explain what you need the money for, and set a target for how much is needed. Stories, photos, and information about any money that has already been raised can be helpful. Then share the page through social media or any other means you think might be useful.
Will I be charged for setting up a crowdfunding page?
Will I be charged for setting up a crowdfunding page?
You should check what the charges would be for the different platforms. Most charge a percentage of the money raised as a fee, but charges vary so it’s worth comparing different websites. It’s also worth factoring in any charges when setting your target.
Can I use the money I raise to pay for other things like the wake, or accommodation for relatives?
Can I use the money I raise to pay for other things like the wake, or accommodation for relatives?
You should specify what the money you are asking for will be used for. If you would like to use it for extras related to the funeral, but not the actual funeral costs themselves, you should make this clear. If you change your mind about what the money will be used for you should get the consent of people who have already donated.
What happens if I get more money than I asked for?
What happens if I get more money than I asked for?
Most crowdfunding pages will continue to accept donations after you have reached your target. You will be able to keep any money that’s raised less the fees. If you hit your target early, it may be worth revising the target if more money needed and add an update to let people know how the extra money will be spent.
How do I donate to help someone with funeral costs?
How do I donate to help someone with funeral costs?
Find the crowdfunding page and click on the donate or support button, choose the amount you wish to give and pay by bank transfer or credit/debit card. You don’t usually need to set up an account and can use a guest option if you wish.
Loans and credit
More detailed information about loans and credit can be found in our guides.
Where can I get a loan for a funeral?
Where can I get a loan for a funeral?
Many funeral directors work with specialist loan companies to arrange payment plans for funerals. There are a few funeral directors who have credit licences and are able to offer these arrangements themselves.
When considering taking out a loan, it is important to consider the payment amounts that will be manageable for you, as well as any interest rates.
You may wish to shop around for the best rates, and consider credit unions.
Please ensure you are borrowing from an authorised lender. Sadly, illegal money lenders (sometimes known as loan sharks) are known to approach families in financial difficulty following a bereavement.
If you think you have borrowed money from an illegal money lender, please contact Stop Loan Sharks
My 'friend' says I can borrow the money, as long as I pay it back with some interest. Is this a good idea?
My 'friend' says I can borrow the money, as long as I pay it back with some interest. Is this a good idea?
Sadly, illegal money lenders (sometimes known as loan sharks) are known to approach people who they recognise to be in financial difficulty, particularly in distressing times.
Genuine friends may offer to lend you money to help with the funeral costs, but only lenders registered with the Financial Conduct Authority can legally charge interest. If they are not a registered lender, we urge you not to borrow from them. If you think you have borrowed money from an illegal money lender, please contact Stop Loan Sharks.
Benefits after a death
For more detailed information about what happens to your own benefits when your partner, child or someone you were a carer for has died, please see our guides.
What is the Universal Credit run-on?
What is the Universal Credit run-on?
There is a bereavement run-on period in Universal Credit if the person who has died was part of a claim with someone else. Payments will continue for the assessment period in which the death occurred, and the following two assessment periods, at the same rate as if the deceased person was part of the household. After this, the payments will be recalculated according to the new circumstances.
What is the Carer's Allowance run-on?
What is the Carer's Allowance run-on?
Carer’s Allowance usually continues for up to eight weeks after the death of the person being cared for, as long the person claiming continues to meet all other eligibility criteria.
Will I have to look for work even though I have been bereaved?
Will I have to look for work even though I have been bereaved?
It is optional for a bereaved Universal Credit claimant to look for work for the six months following the death of a partner or child. Sanctions can only be applied after this period.
It may be possible for other bereaved claimants to negotiate a temporary pause or easement of the requirements of their claimant commitment with their work coach.
Funeral directors
For more detailed information about choosing a funeral director, please see our guides.
How do I find an affordable funeral?
How do I find an affordable funeral?
It is a good idea to shop around to obtain quotes from different funeral directors in your area. You can also consider different ways to keep costs down, for example by traveling in your own vehicles, or taking care of some elements of the arrangements yourself.
What do funeral directors do?
What do funeral directors do?
Funeral directors can take care of all the necessary legal and administrative processes and provide the necessary support to those making the funeral arrangements. They can collect the deceased person and take care of their body until the funeral. They can carry out embalming, where this is requested.
Funeral directors will liaise with the crematorium or cemetery and arrange payments as necessary. They can provide options regarding pall bearers (people to carry the coffin), faith leaders or celebrants to lead a ceremony, floral tributes and order of service booklets. On the day of the funeral the funeral director can take the deceased person to the crematorium or ceremony and liaise with the crematorium/cemetery staff, other professionals, and attendees as needed.
How do I choose a funeral director?
How do I choose a funeral director?
We recommend that you obtain quotes from several different funeral directors to compare their costs and services. Funeral directors are required to display all their prices on their websites and in branch, including a Standardised Price List covering set products and services. This is a good place to start comparisons. Do speak to them about your requirements too, so you can also decide if you are comfortable with the level of service you experience.
What questions should I ask a funeral director?
What questions should I ask a funeral director?
- When you are advised of the cost, make sure it includes any disbursements or third-party fees, such as the crematorium/cemetery and faith leader/celebrant fee.
- If you are working to a budget, ask funeral directors if they can help you organise a simple funeral within your budget.
- Ask for their payment terms (which must also be displayed on their website and in branch) and be aware that they often ask for a deposit before the funeral can take place, some ask for full payment in advance.
- Tell them if you are applying for the Social Fund Funeral Expenses Payment or Funeral Support Payment, or for any charitable grants, in case they can offer a lower deposit or wait for the outcome of these applications before going ahead.
Can I change funeral directors?
Can I change funeral directors?
Yes, you can change funeral directors at any point, however, funeral directors will charge for any services they have already carried out, and there may be other terms to be aware of if you have signed a contract. If the person who has died is already in the care of a funeral director, you will need to arrange with your chosen funeral directors for them to transfer them.
Are funeral directors regulated in the UK?
Are funeral directors regulated in the UK?
In England, Wales and Northern Ireland, funeral directors are almost entirely unregulated. In 2021, the Funerals Market Investigation Order was brought into force by the Competition and Markets Authority (CMA). It placed several legal requirements on UK funeral directors, including displaying prices online and in branch.
Aside from this, funeral directors can voluntarily join trade bodies like the National Association of funeral directors (NAFD) or the National Society of Allied and Independent funeral directors (SAIF), which require members adhere to industry-designed codes of practice. However, this is not legally binding. You can check if a funeral director is a member of a trade body at the links above. They should also display their logos.
In Scotland, funeral directors are legally required to abide by a Funeral Director Code of Practice.
Do I have to use a funeral director?
Do I have to use a funeral director?
You don’t have to use a funeral director. Doing all or some of it yourself is also possible.
Funeral costs
Full information about funeral costs across the UK can be found in our guides.
How much does a simple/basic funeral cost?
How much does a simple/basic funeral cost?
The average cost of the attended funeral tracked by the insurer SunLife is £4,285 (SunLife, 2025).* An attended funeral is one where mourners are present.
Less expensive attended options are available and direct, or unattended, cremations are now readily offered (average price £1,597 according to SunLife).
*This includes a burial/cremation, funeral director fees, a mid-range coffin, one limousine to and from cemetery/crematorium, and doctors’ and officiant fees. (As of September 2024, doctors’ fees of £164 only exist in Northern Ireland).
How do I compare funeral costs?
How do I compare funeral costs?
We recommend that you contact more than one funeral director to obtain a quote for their services and information about their payment terms.
It can be difficult to compare package prices on a like-for-like basis between companies, however funeral directors are required to display a ‘Standardised price list’ for a set of services, and this can be a good place to start with comparisons.
What are 'reasonable funeral expenses'?
What are 'reasonable funeral expenses'?
Different people and organisations will have different interpretations of ‘reasonable’. Often, these are costs such as funeral director fees, coffin, burial or cremation fees, and a faith leader or celebrant. They don’t normally include additional options such as floral tributes, order of service booklets or specialist vehicles.
What is included in a funeral package?
What is included in a funeral package?
Funeral packages are normally put together by funeral directors to reflect the most requested service combinations. Package prices normally include guidance and support from a staff member, assisting with required paperwork for a funeral, care & preparation of the body of the person who has died, and transport of them to the cemetery or crematorium in a hearse or other appropriate vehicle.
Some packages may also include third-party fees such as the cemetery or crematorium fees or someone to lead a funeral ceremony.
When comparing packages between companies, it can help to be clear what services you want and can budget for. Do talk with funeral directors if you are not sure. Packages often differ in content and cost, so be sure to choose what you can afford, and talk with the funeral directors if you’re not sure.
What is the standard fee for someone to lead a funeral ceremony?
What is the standard fee for someone to lead a funeral ceremony?
The fee for a faith leader is normally set by the place of worship but may also include travel expenses. Civil and Humanist celebrants often set their own fees. Generally, the fees for a faith leader or celebrant range from £200.00 to £250.00.
How long will funeral directors wait for payment?
How long will funeral directors wait for payment?
It is advisable to ask a funeral director their payment terms which are part of their terms of business. These will sometimes be available on a funeral director’s website. Payment terms vary between different funeral directors. Some funeral directors will ask for a deposit to cover third party fees, and some will ask for full payment prior to the funeral taking place.
Can I get help with the cost of a wake?
Can I get help with the cost of a wake?
Unfortunately, there isn’t financial help from the government towards wakes and funeral receptions and most charities will not offer grants for wakes. There are some ways that people might choose to keep the costs of this down, for example hosting a small gathering at a family member’s home, asking guests to bring a sharing plate, or providing food only and requiring attendees to purchase their own drinks.
Embalming
Embalming is sometimes referred to as ‘presentation’, ‘hygienic preparation’ or ‘preservation’.
What is embalming?
What is embalming?
Embalming is sometimes referred to as ‘presentation’, ‘hygienic preparation’ or ‘preservation’. Embalming aims to temporarily preserve the body of a person who has died, using a combination of chemicals.
Are all deceased people embalmed?
Are all deceased people embalmed?
Funeral directors may recommend embalming, especially if several weeks have passed since the person died and you want to view them. It may be more advisable in some situations than others, but there is no rule to say that you must have it done. Embalming can affect the person’s colouring and how their skin feels so if you are considering it, ask the funeral director what to expect. Some people prefer not to have it as they feel it can make the person look less natural.
Can I see a person who has died without embalming?
Can I see a person who has died without embalming?
You can view the body of a person who has died who has not been embalmed. Depending on the circumstances of a person’s death and the time that has elapsed since, funeral directors may give advice about seeing the person’s body, however, ultimately it is your choice.
How much does embalming cost?
How much does embalming cost?
Embalming typically costs between £150 and £300 though this can vary depending on the funeral director, embalmer, and any additional services needed.
Direct cremation
A direct cremation is a cremation which takes place with no attendees.
What is a direct cremation?
What is a direct cremation?
A direct cremation is a cremation which takes place with no attendees. This does not stop you from having a ceremony, service, or other form of remembrance of the person who has died, but this would usually take place without the deceased person there, or with their ashes later.
Direct cremation is sometimes also known as ‘unattended cremation’, ‘pure cremation’, ‘no fuss funeral’ or ‘simple cremation’. This can be confusing, as some of the terms are interpreted differently between different funeral directors and direct cremation providers.
How much does a direct cremation cost?
How much does a direct cremation cost?
The average cost of the direct cremation tracked by the insurer SunLife is £1,597 (SunLife, 2025).
We recommend obtaining quotes from different companies, and checking what is included in the service provided.
Can I see the person who has died if I choose a direct cremation?
Can I see the person who has died if I choose a direct cremation?
Not all companies that offer direct cremation have facilities for people to see the person who has died. We advise not to assume that either a viewing of the deceased or dressing them in their own clothes is included. It is best to check.
Can I arrange a ceremony or service if I have a direct cremation?
Can I arrange a ceremony or service if I have a direct cremation?
If you wish to have a service or memorial, this can be done elsewhere in any way you wish – beforehand with the deceased present e.g. at the funeral director’s chapel of rest if they offer this, or after at any venue you like, perhaps with the ashes present.
Council funerals and Hospital funerals
n circumstances where there is no-one willing or able to make funeral arrangements for someone who has died, the local authority where the death happened has a legal duty to make the arrangements.
Who pays for a funeral if there is no money?
Who pays for a funeral if there is no money?
In circumstances where there is no-one willing or able to make funeral arrangements for someone who has died, the local authority where the death happened has a legal duty to make the arrangements. These arrangements differ between local authorities and, while most will allow people to attend, sometimes they are restricted to a direct, unattended, cremation.
If someone died in hospital, speak to the bereavement office there first. Sometimes they will carry out a hospital funeral, but they have no obligation to do so and they might refer you to the council.
What happens if I can't pay for a funeral?
What happens if I can't pay for a funeral?
If you’re not able to pay for a funeral, there are different ways that you can consider raising money towards the funeral costs, for example the estate of the person who has died, government support and grant-giving charities.
In circumstances where there is no-one who can make funeral arrangements for someone who has died, the local authority where the person died has a legal responsibility to make the arrangements. These arrangements differ between local authorities and, while most will allow people to attend, sometimes they are restricted to a direct, unattended cremation.
If someone died in hospital, speak to the bereavement office there first. Sometimes they will carry out a hospital funeral, but they have no obligation to do so and they might refer you to the council.
Can I get a free funeral?
Can I get a free funeral?
Often, funeral directors don’t charge for their core services for the funeral of a child, and government support can assist with costs related to cemetery and crematorium fees.
‘Free’ funerals are not generally available for adults. In circumstances when someone has died and there is no-one willing or able to make funeral arrangements for them, the local authority for where they died has a legal duty to make the arrangements.
It is important to recognise that local authorities have the authority to access the deceased person’s estate to recoup their costs from anything they had left when they died, and sometimes arrangements made by a local authority are restricted to a direct, unattended cremation.
If someone died in hospital, speak to the bereavement office there first. Sometimes they will carry out a hospital funeral, but they have no obligation to do so and they might refer you to the council.
Is the next of kin responsible for funeral costs?
Is the next of kin responsible for funeral costs?
Although it is often the closest relative of the person who has died who makes the funeral arrangements, sometimes this isn’t practical or possible. In these situations, often other family members or close friends will assist, and if there is no-one at all, the local authority where the person died has a legal duty to make the arrangements.
Who is responsible for funeral costs?
Who is responsible for funeral costs?
Often, the closest relative to the person who has died will make the funeral arrangements for them, however this is not always possible. Other family members or close friends may choose to make the arrangements. In circumstances where there is no-one willing or able to make funeral arrangements for someone who has died, the local authority where the death happened has a legal duty.
If someone died in hospital, speak to the bereavement office there first. Sometimes they will carry out a hospital funeral, but they have no obligation to do so and they might refer you to the council.
Planning in advance of a death
How do I record my funeral wishes?
How do I record my funeral wishes?
Funeral wishes are often recorded alongside a will. It is a good idea to give your funeral wishes to family members or friends who will be taking care of matters following your death.
Will saving money for my funeral affect my benefits?
Will saving money for my funeral affect my benefits?
Saving money for your funeral, especially if it exceeds certain thresholds, can potentially affect your eligibility for some means-tested benefits such as Universal Credit, Pension Credit and Housing Benefit. If your savings are below a certain threshold (currently £6,000 for Universal Credit and £10,000 for Pension Credit and Housing Benefit for those above state pension age ), your benefits are not affected. However, if your savings exceed the threshold you will lose some of your benefit payments, and if they are over £16,000 for Universal Credit it will stop. There is no capital limit for Pension Credit but once you have more than £10,000 your payments will reduce.
Can a pre-paid funeral plan be a good idea?
Can a pre-paid funeral plan be a good idea?
A pre-paid funeral plan can be a good idea but it is important to ensure the plan you choose meets your needs. Money Helper (Provided by the Money & Pensions Service), has useful information.
What happens if there is no funeral plan?
What happens if there is no funeral plan?
If there is no funeral plan the funeral will need to be paid from:
- The deceased person’s estate (if there are any funds available through bank accounts, insurance or pension payments, or any other death benefits, e.g. from an employer)
- A Funeral Expenses Payment/Funeral Support Payment grant (if eligible)
- Contributions by family members or friends (if possible)
- If needed there are sometimes charities who can also help towards funeral costs.
What if there is no-one to carry out my arrangements and wishes?
What if there is no-one to carry out my arrangements and wishes?
The council where you die has a legal duty to carry out a burial or cremation, this is called a public health funeral. If you die in hospital, the hospital will sometimes do this instead of the council, using the NHS budget, but they have no obligation to, so this differs around the country.
You can find out more details of how a public health or hospital funeral is carried out in your area by contacting your council or hospital directly. Some councils provide information about public health funerals on their websites. The funeral will usually be a cremation and if you have a strong wish to be buried it’s a good idea to make this known in writing.
Are you considering your own arrangements?
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